Monday, December 12, 2011

Rat race.

"Rat Race is a term used to describe a frustrating, hard-to-break financial lifestyle. It is a lifestyle that is lived by countless people, oblivious to the very nature of it, to a degree that even when called upon, vehemently deny it.

To summarize the Rat Race, It involves subjecting one's self to a time-consuming job, saddling one's self with heavy mortgages/rents, bills, children, and liabilities, forcing the individual to continue busting his or her ass at that same job. The illusion that working at the same job will be better bars off alternatives.

It is also a misconception that getting more money will solve financial distress, but those who subject themselves most voluntarily to the race, just spend more and more, digging themselves the same hole. "I'm not interested in money." They will say. If they aren't, then why are they thanklessly toiling their lives away and constantly bitching about their financial scarcity?

It involves a variable combonation of self-induced fear of poorness, a lack of choice, horrible spending habits, or the inability to adapt to the new changes in the work force taking place during the time of this definition entry.

There exists many options for financial gain and exit of the rat race. Remember, the definition of insanity also entails doing the same thing over and over again, in an attempt to make things change.
~ My father is well educated and works a decent paying job, but gets taxed through the nose as he busts his ass for 60 hours a week. He claims to not like money, but his hairs have gone from financial stress. He's forever stuck in the rat race.

~ My mother married a shitty man and had three kids, myself included. She let the man handle all of the expenses, and eventually she got dropped cold turkey. While trying to fight for child support, she had no choice but to enter the rat race at her older age. We did too, when we started becoming adults."
From Urban Dictionary.

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

We Need to Talk About Dad

Watch Online : (SOCKSHARE) Video Link :We Need to Talk About Dad (Channel 4, 21 November 2011)
The Johnson family appeared to have it all after two decades of happy marriage: professional success, a beautiful house in Kent, flaxen-haired children...
Locals jokingly referred to them as a 'Sunday Supplement Family'. But one day Nick told his wife he had a surprise for, led her blind-folded into the garden, and committed an act of violence far worse than anything they could have imagined.
Henry, who was just 16 at the time, became a witness to the crime.
We Need to Talk About Dad meets the Johnsons as they reunite for Christmas, fulfilling the dreams of the youngest son Felix who - until now - has been sheltered from the events of that day.
Henry's need to confront what happened sees each of them come face to face with the mystery of the attack, and the impact it has had on their lives.
Wanting to destroy something perfect.
Henry said he felt his father snapped because maintaining the perfect family life was too much for him and the build up of pressure led to the attack on his mother. The offfical diagnosis was a temporary psychotic episode linked to the death of his father.
channel4.com/programmes
"This film left many questions unanswered about what had happened to cause a loving father in a 'perfect' family to smash the wife he had always adored over the head with the blunt end of an axe. "
Very thoughtful post and comments. "We Need to Talk About Dad"
The Roads We Take...?
...and more films:
- Leaving (2009)
- I Am Love (2009)
- Revolutionary Road (2008)

"You need to live within your means."
"Rat Race."

Sunday, November 20, 2011

Йозеф Судек.

Он был сосредоточен на своем внутреннем мире, а его фотографии всегда были очень тесно связаны с состоянием его души.
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I discovered Sudek's photography.
Josef Sudek 17 March 1896, Kolín, Bohemia – 15 September 1976) was a Czech photographer.

"...you cannot find peace by avoiding life."

"The Hours (2002)" movie. Three women, one day, a connection.
The Hours Movie Review & Film Summary (2002) | Roger Ebert:
"I remember one morning getting up at dawn, there was such a sense of possibility, you know, that feeling? And I remember thinking to myself that this is the beginning of happiness, this is where it starts. And of course there will always be more. It never occurred to me that it wasn’t the beginning… it was happiness. It was the moment, right then."
-Clarissa Vaughan, played by Meryl Streep
"I can't fight any longer." Virgina Woolf, Here!

Saturday, November 19, 2011

Список от Бродского.

"Книги, которые должен прочесть каждый.":"Иосиф Бродский преподавал студентам в Маунт-Холиоке. Похоже, по настоящему ему отравляло жизнь только одно: поголовная болезнь американской молодежи - беспробудное невежество. Однажды, выведенный из себя особенно безнадежным классом, Броский сел за машинку и наспех составил «Список книг, которые должен прочесть каждый»."

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Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Because she knows the worst thing about me and it's okay.

Joe Black: ...But Allison loves you?
Quince: [Quince nods yes between stifled sobs]
Joe Black: How do you know?
Quince: Because she knows the worst thing about me and it's okay.
Joe Black: What is it?

Quince: You're free! You're free to l - love each other completely, totally. Just no fear. So there's nothing you don't know about each other, and it's okay.
Memorable quotes for
"Meet Joe Black" (1998)

Friday, November 11, 2011

Англия. /Paraphrasing./

«То, чему я научилась здесь за прожитые годы, гораздо важнее навыков, полученных ранее. Англия - это другой мир во всех концепциях»

Конце́пция (от лат. conceptio — понимание, система) — определённый способ понимания, трактовки каких-либо явлений, основная точка зрения, руководящая идея для их освещения[1]; система взглядов на явления в мире, в природе, в обществе[2]; ведущий замысел, конструктивный принцип в научной, художественной, технической,политической и других видах деятельности; комплекс взглядов, связанных между собой и вытекающих один из другого, система путей решения выбранной задачи. Концепция определяет стратегию действий.

Sunday, October 30, 2011

Welcome to binge Britain.

...или Добро пожаловать в пьющую Великобританию.
Welcome to binge Britain: Polish photographer documents four years of drunken revelry in Cardiff | Mail Online:
Events - How to relax stiff Brits BestTopNews.com: "The famous Polish photographer Maciej Dakovic consider themselves inveterate travelers. He traveled more than 20 countries, and everywhere taking pictures, gives an idea about the real lives of the local population. According to his confession, such a binge, as in the capital city of Cardiff uelsskoy, it is not found anywhere else. Album "Night Cardiff became a sensation because it prudish Brits appear with a completely different side. Right now, the publication of such photo album is very urgent, because the British officials are deploying a campaign against alcoholism."
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Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Learn how to live for next to nothing.

1. Education
Open University: http://openlearn.open.ac.uk/
2. Books:
http://www.readitswapit.co.uk/TheLibrary.aspx
3. Funiture
http://www.freecycle.org/
http://www.gumtree.com/
4. Holidays
http://www.homelink.org.uk/
http://www.couchsurfing.org/news/article/79
http://www.helpx.net/findhosts.asp?network=3
5. Accommodation
Camelot Property Ltd, 0700 226 3568, www.camelotproperty.com
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/property/3359038/How-to-live-in-London-for-a-lot-less.html

Thursday, October 6, 2011

Stay Hungry, Stay Foolish – Steve Jobs

"You've got to find what you love,"
- Steven Paul "Steve" Jobs (February 24, 1955 – October 5, 2011)
Стив Джобс: Оставайтесь голодными. Оставайтесь безрассудными. :
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"Сегодня я хочу рассказать вам три истории из моей жизни. И всё. Ничего грандиозного. Просто три истории.